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Male Menopause–Is It Real?

Posted 08/08/2010

Short answer: Yes, but don’t hope for any quick fixes—that’s so-o-o pharmaceutical industry think.

Another way to view male menopause: Sure, a ball will bounce, only less and less.

I get asked about male menopause all the time, almost always by women (admittedly they represent the majority of my patients), but only rarely by my male patients who, for the most part, don’t seem to sense much of a problem. Could men be viewing male menopause the way they view weight gain? While women buy diet books and serially starve themselves/gain everything back, men buy larger pants with elastic belts.

Women who want to discuss male menopause with me are often concerned about declining sex drive in their partners. Just when they’re ramping up their own estrogen with bioidentical hormone replacement and messing the sheets with vaginal lubricants, being Botoxed and dermabraded, they wonder: Where’s my reward for all this–what about him?

“Male menopause is for real,” I say, “and just as your own menopause comes about from a decline in estrogen levels, which started in your mid-thirties, he’s got the same issue with his testosterone.”

It’s also true that some men never have a lot of testosterone to start with, and losing about 1% of it every year can bring about a group of symptoms in their 50s and 60s officially termed hypogonadism, but better known as andropause or male menopause.

A few testosterone facts:
• A guy needs testosterone for muscle-building (twenty-somethings are poisoned with the stuff, and if they exercise they do look great). Your guy’s muscles will start getting flabby with male menopause, especially if he’s no exerciser.

• Testosterone is a source of general energy and the sense of well-being, so fatigue becomes probably the most prevalent symptom of male menopause. And remember how estrogen moves in lock-step with your feel-good, stress-buffering serotonin, so that during menopause, with dropping estrogen levels pulling down serotonin, you felt weepy and irritable? During male menopause, his feel-good serotonin falls, too. But instead of getting weepy (although he may do that), he may get nasty and unpleasant–worse than he was. They’re not called “grumpy old men” for nothing.

• Then there’s the sex drive issue. If you think of yourself, libido is complicated, so please don’t think that ramping up his testosterone is going to fix everything. Did taking estrogen in birth control pills when you were younger, or as bioidentical hormones when you were older, dramatically kick up your own libido? Probably not, because your sexual urges are far more complex than just hormone levels.

• While there are many reasons for being fatigued or grumpy beyond the low testosterone of male menopause, I do measure testosterone if a patient is concerned about either of these symptoms. On the rare occasion a man complains of low sex drive, I’ll also measure his testosterone, but generally he beats me to the punch—he’s made the appointment primarily to check his levels. A far more common complaint is erectile dysfunction, so much so that the Viagra family of meds have become a new recreational drug for Baby Boomer guys.

If you do discuss sex with your partner, and you’re concerned about what seems like flagging interest, I recommend a chat about male menopause and suggesting he get his testosterone levels checked.

If the test results are inappropriately low (remember, don’t expect levels of a 20-year-old), the easiest way to restore them to normal is through daily application of testosterone skin creams (AndroGel or Testim). Slightly more complicated are weekly injections of testosterone, or small pellets of testosterone inserted beneath the skin. Note there are no testosterone pills to take. Like everything else you ingest, oral testosterone makes its first pass through the liver before entering your bloodstream. Unfortunately, it’s been found to cause liver damage and even liver cancer, so it’s no longer even available.

What to expect with added testosterone? More energy is very likely. Less irritability and brain fog, probably. If he’s a health club regular, he’ll be pleased with some new definition in his abs (“washboard,” however, is pressing your luck).

I suspect the old guy whose photo you see in airplane magazine ads–who physically looks in better shape than 80% of my twenty-something patients–would bleed pure testosterone from a paper cut.

And libido? There’s a better-than-even chance of improvement, but like you, he’s complicated.

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One comment on “Male Menopause–Is It Real?
  1. Heather says:

    My boyfriend has low testosterone (210) but high estrogen… He works out daily and is rock solid. We have very good sex with a hard erection at least two to four times a day.. He has gone to several docs and they all want to put him on testosterone. How is it he is still getting strong erections? He is on lots of vitamin and herbals, could this affect the test results? He is conserned bc he has not lost weight in a year. He is 6’1″ and 212lbs

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